Understand and accept the responsibility for the ungodly act
Many who have chosen sin have been victims of another person’s will to commit an ungodly act against them such as, sexual abuse and rape, among other wounds. Taking the past wounds into consideration for healing is appropriate, but in no way excuses a person’s responsibility for choices made from their free will.
Own the sin and recognize that forgiveness is needed.
“Against You, You only, have I sinned and done that which is evil in Your sight, so that You are justified in Your sentence and faultless in Your judgment.” Psalm 51:4 AMP
“Purify me with hyssop, and I shall be clean [ceremonially] wash me, and I shall [in reality] be whiter than snow.” Psalm 51:7 AMP
We must stop playing the “Blame Game” and own our sins.
“If we freely admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just (true to His own nature and promises) and will forgive our sins [dismiss our lawlessness] and [continuously] cleanse us from all unrighteousness [everything not in conformity to His will and purpose, thought and action." 1 John 1:9 AMP
Understand and accept the forgiveness of God, realizing that there is nothing we can add to the finished work of the cross!
When Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, “It is finished!” and He bowed His head and gave up His spirit. John 19:30 AMP
"In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that He lavished on us." Ephesians 1:7-8
"For God was pleased to have all His fullness dwell in Him (Christ) and through Him to reconcile to Himself all things." Colossians 1:19
This last scripture tells us that God accepted His Son’s blood as full payment for all our sins.
Relinquish all ungodly thoughts and emotions
Many thoughts have been embedded in our minds that do not line up with the Word of God. Ungodly thoughts become attitudes that will affect our emotions. The living Word of God must renew our minds.
"There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death." Romans 8:1-2 NKJV
"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." Romans 12:2
"…those who live in accordance with the scripture have their minds set on what the Spirit desires." Romans 8:5
"Now the mind of the flesh [which is sense and reason without the Holy Spirit] is death [death that comprises all the miseries arising from sin, both here and hereafter]. But the mind of the [Holy] Spirit is life and [soul] peace [both now and forever].” Romans 8:6
“And God’s peace [shall be yours, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and being content with its earthly lot whatever sort that is, that peace], which transcends all understanding shall garrison and mount guard over your hearts.” Philippians 4:7 AMP
“[Inasmuch as we] refute arguments and theories and reasoning and every proud and lofty thing that sets itself up against the (true) knowledge of God; and we lead every thought and purpose away captive into the obedience of Christ ( the Messiah, the Anointed One).” 2 Corinthians 10:5 (Isaiah 55:1)
Accept and walk in newness of life.
When we are born again, we are a new creation, adopted into the family of God, joint heirs with Jesus Christ and we have eternal life.
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” ~ 2 Corinthians 5:17